Let's talk about your priorities first. Thinking about your priorities and what is important to you will get you in the goal-setting frame of mind. Think about who you are and 'what makes you tick.' Then, make sure your goals are in line with what you are all about.
Balancing Between Wants and Needs
Wants are emotional. There is a deep feeling behind your wants. You want to be loved. You want to be secure. You want to feel good. Your wants are not necessary for your survival but they are important for how you feel about yourself.
Needs are requirements. Things like food, shelter and medicine are needs. You can't survive and grow without them. You also have financial needs, like an emergency reserve account, adequate health insurance and a regular savings program.
Keep in mind the difference between your wants and your needs. For example, do you want a new car because you don't like the old one, or do you need one because the old one is falling apart?
We're not saying that you should not have goals for the things you want. We are saying that asking yourself if you really need it will help you to prioritize. And since few of us can have everything that we want, knowing your priorities will help you determine what needs to be done next and what has to change.
Common Priorities
To help you think about your priorities, or what's important to you, we've given you a list of common priorities. Print out this list if you like, and then go through it and put an 'X' in the appropriate column – most important, kind of important or least important. Feel free to add your own.
Ranking
Priority
Most Important
Kind-of-Important
Least Important
Starting a family (having a child or children)
Funding College Expenses
If you're a partner in a two-earner couple, making sure you're making the right financial moves
Providing Day Care for your children
Taking care of elderly parents or relatives
Planning around separation or divorce
Buying your first home
Selling your home and buying another one
Buying a second home, vacation home or a rental property
Getting a big investment portfolio
Making sure health costs are taken care of
Taking care of your family if you die
Taking care of your family if you become disabled
Spending less
Reducing debt
Achieving success in your career
Planning for a comfortable retirement
Achieving financial confidence
Reducing your income tax bill
Giving to charity
Having a good estate plan
Traveling
Other priorities: